Ever experience something in your life that makes you become
more mature and evolve you as a person. Well, there are endless possibilities
that life can offer, but only a few of it that we get to experience before
reaching twenties. So, I will talk about the things I’ve experienced up until
now, that made me change my way of thinking and accepting all of it as a part
of my life. I am sure some of the things that I will share, are the things that most of us also have
experienced it in their life.
Let me
start with the first one, heartbreak.
I am sure that most of us had experienced heartbreaks. It is the feeling of
devastation where it is really hard for us to accept fact. There is a thing or
two that you might have learnt from it such as to not repeat the same heartbreak in life and the most important thing is moving on with your life. Well, if you still
can’t move on, just take your time and without you realizing it, you already
accept it as a part of your life. If there is a thing that stopping you off
from progressing, just take a step back and take two steps forward. My advice is, let it out to someone you very close to you such as your family or your friends are the first step to move on.
Next is,
be the best at the thing you do best.
What I see in life, almost all of us are average in the things that we do, but
different people has that one thing they do best from the others. Usually, that
one thing is something that we really love to do. It depends on different
people and perspectives, that one thing can be in form of studies, sports or
even skills. At least once in your life, feel the high of being ‘the best one’,
even if it is only for a moment. During my high school days, I found a few of
the things that I am good at and I worked really hard to bring it to a whole
new level. Devoting oneself to what you enjoy and improving yourself, isn’t
that what it means to have fun?
Moving
on to the next one, is living away from
family. Nothing makes you wiser than being on your own away from family.
When you are young, it is better for your own good because it will enhance your
decision-making skill and it teaches you to survive on your own. You will be far
away from your family, but you will also meet new people that comes and goes in
your life. You will find from thousands of them, only a few that can stick with
you till the end. They accept you as it is and will be there during your ups
and downs. You may be living on your own, but you can count on them when you
need any supports.
Let us
proceed to, having a part time job. I
am very sure most of us already know what they want to do in their life and
they have their own dream career. Well, before you continue furthering your
studies to realize your dream career, try having the experience of working anywhere for a few months as a part timer. Trust me, you will gain a lot of benefits
from it. You will know the how hard is it to earn the money and it will shape you
before entering the busy life of working at your dream career. You will learn
the true value of money. The things that you learnt from your part time, may also be a skill that benefits you in the future.
Lastly, a taste of failure. Fail at least once.
Failure is an experienced that makes you feel lost at first, but the beauty of
it, if someone can accept his weakness and take it positively, they can succeed
better in life than people who never fail before. Don’t be afraid to lose.
Failure will only make you stronger physically and mentally. Without knowing
the taste of failure, you would not be able to appreciate success. The one who
has hit rock bottom and make their way up ‘make legends’. There’s also a saying
goes like this, “winner never quit, quitter never win”.
In
conclusion, as you growing up older by day, many new things you will
experience. Just take all the things that come in your life positively. You
will be sure to look back on your past, and can only smile as you have already
overcome it. People were not given time to change their past, instead they were
given more time in the present to learn from it and were given the future to avoid the
same mistakes from happening all over again. Well, to those who read this, it is never
too late to experience new things in life. Never getting to try many different things in youth time, are the biggest regret of all.
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